What is the best all inclusive resort in aruba? also what are some of the things to do there as far as excur?

The most expensive all inclusives are the Occidental and the Riu Palace. Both are located on Palm Beach.

Our family recently completed a 12 night stay at the Tamarijn. We loved it after having stayed along Palm Beach on 15 previous trips, we found a beach that was even better! You can read about our trip at http://www.arubabound.com/trip_reports/r...
My photos are also posted at http://www.arubabound.com/photos/htl/tam...

For excursions, most everything revolves around watersports, mainly snorkeling, sailing, diving and that sort of thing. But there are plenty of other things to do:
http://www.aruba.com/whattodo/

Sorry to say, Aruba is beautiful and very boring. And it is HOT. If you are into simply hitting the beach and club hopping, you might enjoy Aruba. You can tour the island in a day and then there's not much left.........

best of luck to you!

if you use this place for advice then you may as well listen up, best advice i can pass along... there are 2 places you do not want to use an all inclusive resort_____aruba and st. martin. reason? those 2 islands have sooo many good places to eat that after a long relaxing day at the beach the best part of being there is going for variety, you will regret doing all inclusive, also, if you do the simply math, you do not get your money's worth, take a dinner cruise, or a booze cruise, go 4 wheeling, or the evening party bus, go up town shopping, great for jewelry there. if you want all inclusive go to mexico or D.R.--------contact me if need be